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Wednesday, March 30, 2011

ELLLS BBQ Gathering [29/3/11]

Last night, there's a BBQ gathering organized by the ELLLS committees. We had lots of fun eating the food and did some crazy stuffs. Haha.



 *It seems like Dee is licking Ru Yi's fingers. Eww.

*This is the first crazy look picture of mine that I've ever post in my blog. 





*Wow. There's magic on Ru Yi's head. Haha.

 Us with Our Dearest Lecturer, Dr. CK

Us with Our Dearest Senior, Davin



My 2 Best Sisters Forever. I cherish our friendship.

P/s:
Even though we're all busy with our assignments, but we still manage to free out some times hanging around together.

Friday, March 25, 2011

Dinner's Menu [21-25/3/11]

Monday

Tuesday

Wednesday

Thursday -- I attended my BSMM annual dinner.

Friday

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Kajang [24/3/11]

After Multimedia Project presentation, I went to Kajang with Suzzane, Ru Yi and Abang. We ate a meal at Secret Recipe.

Grilled Mushroom Chicken

Chocolate Indulgence

Friday, March 18, 2011

Serdang [18/3/11]

After German class, we boarded up the bus and took KTM to Serdang for dinner.


Bak Kut Teh

Dinner's Menu [14,15&17/3/11]

Monday

Tuesday

Wednesday I did my assignments at cafe with Suzzane. I ate my dinner there before I went back to my room.

Thursday

Lunch Delivery [14&18/3/11]

Suzzane, a close coursemate and good neighbour of mine will pack me food to eat whenever she comes back from her sister's house.

Braised Pork Rice

Roast Pork Rice

P/s:
Thanks, Suzzane.

生命中的三个人、你会选择谁?

第1个人,一直哭着不要你走,一直拉着你的手说会想你,约定每天打电话,然后回家继续游戏.
第2个人,帮你收拾行李,替你做早饭,送你到车站,说:一路顺风,然后回去工作.
第3个人,默默的在背后看着你,几乎看不见他的存在,可他时时刻刻想念你,为你担心,每天习惯的想你入睡

当我们回来时,你会怎么做?

给第1个人,买很多礼物,和他一起出去吃饭,一起玩,看到他开心,连天空的颜色也变得多彩.
给第2个人,一个拥抱,和他在家吃他为你做的饭,一起洗碗,会让他陪你看电视,为有他陪伴而庆幸.
给第3个人,一个温馨的微笑,说:hi,我回来了,一切尽在不言中.

当我们失去他的时候,你会怎么样?

失去第1个人,我们会觉得生活失去了色彩,混沉沉的过着,然后在某个地方再遇到新的色彩,开始新的生活
失去第2个人,我们会觉得失去了依靠,没有了关爱,然后吃过很多补品,恢复原来的样子.
失去第3个人,开始没有感觉,可会在一天里,发现围绕在自己身边的爱没有了,永远无法弥补.

现在你知道了吗?

第1种感情,是朋友的,知已的,瞬间的.
第2种感情,是父母的,朋友的,亲人的.
第3种感情,是爱人的,知已的,永久的.

现在你明白了吗?

第1种,付出的是语言.
第2种,付出的是时间.
第3种,付出的是爱情.

没有那个最好,因为3种我们都需要.
没有那个是十全十美的,因为我们是人.
只有懂得把握的人,才是幸福的.
如果是你,你会选择那一种人,是不是很难决择.
这篇日记你会看几遍?
希望看到这篇日记的人,都能得到自己的真爱,希望你们能幸福.
更希望我们现在或未来的他(她),能够幸福.
我更希望你能幸福,希望每个转我的日记的人都能给你带去一份幸福,一份快乐.

Monday, March 14, 2011

不要最好,只需要剛好

有一晚,男友問女友︰「如果有個條件更好的男人追求妳,妳…會走嗎?」
女友堅定地說不會,但男友似乎很不相信。
於是,女友寫了以下的故事給男友︰

從前一位小和尚問老和尚:「甚麼是愛情?」
老和尚叫小和尚走向麥田,然後摘下一顆最大的麥,但絕對不能回頭,只能摘一顆。
小和尚走著走著,發現一顆看起來很大的麥,但他心想前面的可能有更大,因此沒有給摘下來。他抱著這個想法一直向前走,沒想到已經走完了整個麥田,但他雙手空空如也。
老和尚就跟小和尚說:「這就是愛情了。」

每個人都跟小和尚一樣,心想真的得到最好的,但沒想到時間一幌,人生已經終結。在我們人生中,總有些人比較好,條件很優厚,只是剛錯過了時間。或許會可惜,或許會悔恨,若干年後你可能會想怎麼當年瞎了眼嫁給那笨蛋?

可是,如果人生不斷的追求「最完美」,便會永遠沉淪在追求當中,看著緣份一次次的溜走。

情侶,最好的不一定合適;但能夠合適的已經是最好。

女友說︰「你在合適的時間出現,做了合適的事,在我來說已經是無可取替的好了。」

Saturday, March 12, 2011

2011 Japanese Earthquake and Tsunami

A massive 8.9 magnitude earthquake hit the Pacific Ocean nearby Northeastern Japan at around 2:46pm on March 11 (JST) causing damage with blackouts, fire and tsunami.

Officials say 350 people are dead and about 500 missing, but it is feared the final death toll will be much higher.



P/s:
Let us Pray For the Victims of the Japan Earthquake & Tsunami.

Friday, March 11, 2011

Dinner's Menu [7-11/3/11]

Monday

Tuesday

Wednesday

Thursday

Friday

Cheras Leisure Mall [10/3/11]

After class, I went out with Suzzane and Ru Yi. The main purpose was Ru Yi and I wanted to buy a pair of new shoes.

My New Sandals Shoes

We also dropped by Secret Recipe for High Tea.

Chocolate Chip Walnut Cake

Chicken Cordon Bleu

P/s:
We chit chat and laughed a lots while we're eating. Haha.

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

12星座:你真的知道自己的优点和讨厌什么吗??

1) 白羊座

你大方、明朗,全身充满活力。不管跟什么人,你都能很快的和他打成一片。虽然你十分热情,却缺乏协调性格,容易我行我素,因而发生争执。你做事不拘小节、好动、喜欢群居生活。而且你爱好自由,讨厌受拘束。你是富正义感、积极、果断的理想追求者。还有你爱帮助弱者,有亲切而勇敢的领导能力。你非常有朝气而且精力旺盛,只展示自己好的一面。

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讨厌自己冲动

别看白羊总是信心十足的说他们想怎样就怎样,谁也管不着,而他们想要管的,就没人能够阻止,常常都是一副打死也不认错的姿态面对失败,而实际上,白羊在心底是真的很讨厌自己冲动的个性,嘴上虽然不说,可是,当不顾后果的影响造成以后,在意之人受伤的眼神一闪而过,他们是真的心痛了,可惜这个世界上没有后悔药,只好一次次的警告自己,冲动是魔鬼,凡事要冷静思考后再行动。

2) 金牛座

你不但好学、知识丰富,还很会发挥你优秀的头脑。温和、顺从是你最明显的个性。你很勤奋,肯脚踏实地的努力。不过你有点消极。虽然不很出色,但你温柔而体贴的性格却十分的吸引人。你信念强、能够对抗虚伪和欺诈,持有高洁的信念。因为你富于童心,所以很乐于追求新鲜的生活。你现实而且朴素,还很守本分,勤苦地开拓前途,是个表现真实自我的类型。

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讨厌自己太过坚持

金牛是个对既定目标很执着的星座,眼光很好,所以也就很高,只是他们自己不这么认为,也就很自然的忽略了别人诧异的目光,继续自己那在别人看来的蜗牛步行,所以,这并不是他们反感的,相反挺认同,只是很讨厌自己总是想得太多,考虑周全固然很好,可要是过了,就成了胆小如鼠之辈,近在咫尺的机会因为这样或那样的顾虑而拱手相让,实在是可惜,有着不浅心机的金牛怎么会不知道,却无法改变这讨厌的习惯。

3) 双子座

你善于说服别人,还是个很好的倾听者。
你很会照顾朋友,不过希望你别再为小事生气哦!热情、罗曼蒂克的你,总有众多的追求者。
你具有双重推断的头脑及优异的口才能力。你善于临机应变,富于机智,笔墨和言辞兼备。由于你对各式各样的事都很关心,为人又很热心,所以为十二星座中双重人格最显着的类型。双子座是好奇心很强的智慧星。

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讨厌自己心口不一

心口不一,原因肯定不只一个,也许是为了保护自己脆弱的心,也或许不愿别人想太多,令本来简单的事变复杂,而这却是双子讨厌自己的地方,明明心里爱着,却不知为何总是说着冰冷的话语拒绝,明明不想放手,却不知为何果断的答应,是太爱还是太恨,是陷的太深还是从未真正进入,很多时候这都已经不再重要,因为谎言伤害的不只是对方,还有自己。

4) 狮子座

你有着崇高的理想,为人慷慨、有恻隐心、具幽默感,所以会吸引很多人。只要你决定一件事,就不会接受别人的意见。择善固执虽然好,但也该有接受别人意见的雅量。谦虚一点、学习忍耐,不要太骄傲吧!你个性明朗、干脆,具有火焰般的热情。在你类似首领的领导者气质之下,有一颗浮燥,且容易感到寂寞的心。虽然你平时做事很紧张、积极,但一做错了什么,就容易垂头丧气。你对人的态度也是忽好忽坏。

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讨厌自己故作坚强

其实,讲究气派的狮子,是个很温柔的星座。只不过.他们的温柔都是用霸道表现出来的,只有真正了解他们的人才会懂,也才会有享受的感觉。在外人面前,他们一定是王,但两个人的世界,却可以变为后,展现出最为浪漫柔情的一面。因为从未想过背叛,当这一天袭来,狮子措手不及,接着就是故作坚强的一笑了之。当然.狮子讨厌自己的这种虛偽方法,因为心好痛,还得不到别人的安慰,这样的王者风范真的让狮子好累……

5) 处女座

你生来就具有艺术家的特质。你对色彩感觉丰富、有音乐欣赏力。你是个认真而害羞、脚踏实地的人。你注重细节又手巧,从小就很会整顿事情,能用手把脑子里的构思一个一个实现出来。你做事认真、很守信用,不过有时也会任性、情绪不稳定。你害羞、不善于表达自己的感情,有着纤细的感受性。你重视秩序,对于善恶、正邪,有锐利的批判力。你是所有星座中最单纯的,不但口不出恶言,而且行为端正,但由于过于清高,有时反而会得罪人。

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讨厌自己太过细心

很多时候,习惯并不一定就是喜欢,也有可能会是讨厌,就好像处女座对自己逃避态度的评价,他们可以是细心谨慎,做事周到的,却不是想象中完美的,只要计划没有赶上变化,以为的目标没有完全达到,哪怕只是差之毫厘,处女座的自信也就被抽离了,紧接着就是逃避,因为不想却又总是如此,才会讨厌,如果能在问题出现的时候急時解决,就不会错过那么多了,就不会给别人乘虚而入的机会了,可惜,在那些时候还是走开了。

6) 天秤座

你精力充沛、兴趣广泛、喜欢活动。你从不缺乏交往的物件,是生活在热闹中的人。你很会体贴别人、刻意追求美和正义、不喜欢争执。你公正、有理性、重视友情。虽然偶尔会任性一点,不过通常你冷静而崇尚调和,对任何事都不会狂热。你具有对人生所有经验都能理解的均衡人生观和处世态度。你是双重人格的星座。因为你迷迷糊糊的,自己都不了解自己,所以呈现双重人格,自己也不晓得。

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讨厌自己情不自禁

天秤是个喜欢反反复复的星座,很多时候已经到达了终点,又突然没相通什么的折回来,并不是有意为之,而是情不自禁,这也是他们最讨厌的犹豫个性,曾经也提醒自己在作出决定的时候要果断,千万不要想东想西的,尽量按照自己的第一感觉去做,可每次都事与愿违,以至本来简单的快乐,变成了复杂的不爽,令别人为难,也使自己陷入困境,天秤真的不愿因此离想要的生活越来越远。

7) 天蝎座

你是个热情而乐天、不喜欢欺骗、而且很专心的人。你总能积极抓住属于你的幸运。你看起来很安静,其实你头脑很棒,而且对任何事都很热心。你超有耐性的。平常给人的感觉是慎重、沉默寡言,可是事实上是怎么样的闷骚你自己知道吧?!你洞察力很锐利,无聊时就喜欢暗地里观察别人。你不会受任何阻碍所迷惑,很专情,而且你很会选择理想的伴侣。大多人都觉得你善嫉妒、有强烈的独占欲。建议你找一些适合自己的兴趣,抒发自己过于专注的个性及占有欲,才不会给别人太大的压力哦。

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讨厌自己情深意重

情深义重是天蝎的优点,在没有因此受到伤害之前,他们也是这么认为的,不需要向对方隐藏任何心思,只需要享受那拥抱在一起的温暖,彼此心照不宣,可当原本以为会长久的爱恋被宣告无效,他们从希望之巅跌落到失望之谷,讨厌自己的情深,在十字路口分手以后,对方已经去追寻另外一段恋情了,而自己却还没有从前一段爱恋的阴霾中走出来,为什么要记得这么深,爱一个人好难,恨一个人也好累,忘记其实是遥远的。

8) 巨蟹座

你不但想像力丰富,而且有很强的理解力。你坦白、大方、正直、忠于朋友。还有你十分善于理财、也很会存钱。你有一种母性的防卫能力和不挑剔朋友的顺应性。你很会模仿,并能在模仿中创造出新的东西来。对人过于同情时,你会变成双重性格,因为你感情脆弱,一听到对方的不幸,心就软了下来,同情会改变你对他人的看法。
巨蟹座是有内向性格的女性星座:你比较倾向女性阴柔的一面。你重感情、做人踏实、对自己也蛮有自信的哦!

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讨厌自己太过敏感

对别人温柔,就是对自己残忍,用这句话来形容巨蟹,应该不会招来太多的异议,因为太在乎别人的态度,又太需要被爱,巨蟹选择了毫无保留的付出,这本来也是无可厚非的,一个愿打一个愿挨,爱情的游戏本来就没有真理存在,可太过敏感的心让他们吃了不少苦头,突然的不联系,突然多出来的距离,都让巨蟹特别的不安,真的很讨厌,一点小事因为自己的敏感而越闹越大,甚至演变成了不信任,一不小心就触动了爱情的死穴。

9) 射手座

你自尊心、适应力强,遇到困难时,会有条有理地处理。诚实、可信赖、头脑好是你的优点。你会带给人快乐!你兴趣广泛。虽然你会插手管无聊的事,不过还好啦,你会反省,找出自己该做的事,然后成为了不起的人物。此外,你具有正义感和爱捉弄人的双重性格,是个憎恨束缚,爱好自由的乐天派。你在日常生活及重视金钱的社会里得不到满足。

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讨厌自己太天真

乐观是射手生活的亮点,围绕着这个亮点,他们来去自如,潇洒如风,似乎没有什么可以使之为难的,只要快乐就好,一切好说,可就是这样一个无拘无束的射手也会讨厌自己,在经历了一次次被骗,一次次没有任何回报的付出之后,他们讨厌自己的真诚,换句话说也叫天真,若只活在一个人的世界也还好,但这是个现实的**,没有那么多美好与善良.一心一意的对待,却换来一盆冷水,是不是也要学会耍心机。

10) 摩羯座

你不喜欢出风头,而且很现实。你喜欢清纯的爱,即使是小小的幸福,也会使你感到很大的喜悦。你保守而驯良,崇尚整洁及秩序,而且你具有诚实的责任感及强烈的耐力。你有一种确定目的后便不离放的忍耐精神。你非常朴素、爱干净。你往往因过分坚持自己的意见而吃亏。而且,由于你为人比较沉静,常被认为是性格捉摸不定的人。

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讨厌自己自尊心太强

自尊心是摩羯自始自终都要保护的,可也是他们讨厌自己的根源,不必惊讶,也不用急着否认,想想每次因为几句冷言冷语而愤然离去,把机会大方的给了别人后的不甘心,和恋人吵架冷战后,为了面子而不愿主动和好,使缘分成为过去,摩羯一定后悔了,自尊心能当饭吃吗,自尊心能留住快乐吗,那强自硬撑的痛苦有谁会了解,就算有人想分担,也找不到理由,摩羯可以伪装的很好,欺骗所有人,却唯独无法欺骗自己。

11) 水瓶座

你爱自由和善变,但是你的梦想无限大。你不但有很多好朋友,而且也搏得年长者得疼爱。你理想高、不喜欢受到限制。聪明而机警的你喜爱挖苦人,加上对爱慕的人忽冷忽热的,捉摸不定,所以一时较难找到理想对象。你优异的推理能力及智慧造成了敏锐的眼光和流畅的辩论能力,是个具有向未知及黑暗挑战的奋战精神的人。你是个温柔的人,即使碰见了讨厌的人,也会对他微笑。因为有点喜新厌旧、没有定性,所以有时候遭人讨厌。不过你普通蛮爆笑、挺可爱的啦!

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讨厌自己自以为是

水瓶是个能轻易洞察别人想法的星座,还是个很好的开导者,他们从不轻易许诺,因为会信守到底。如此一个在别人眼中什么都可以做得很好的星座,却是很讨厌自己的自以为是。什么不愉快是会转瞬即逝,什么想得开,才不会因为放弃而释然……统统都是骗人的,水瓶座没有那么伟大,也没有那么大方,却总是在受伤之后装出一副无所谓的样子。自以为会好起来,心中是多希望得到真诚的安慰与关心,他们真的很讨厌自以为是。

12) 双鱼座

你谦逊、有同情心、又有耐心。对心理、哲理方面有敏锐观察力。你的缺点是胆小、心志不坚跟忧虑过多。你天生便能全然接受一切现状和其他人的本来面目,而且你不会想去改变别人。你将自己内心最深处的感受潜藏于心,但是若能遇上志同道合的朋友,你也会对朋友倾诉自己的感受。对于世俗的一切,你常常会感到束手无策而拙于应付,但是你有一个非常丰富的内心世界。

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讨厌自己太多幻想

喜欢幻想是双鱼丰富想象力与天性浪漫的产物,活在其中,自然是很快乐的,没有人会打扰,也不会被打扰到,那是个干净透明的世界,是用真心真意编织的梦境,而这也成了他们讨厌自己的焦点,如果不是单纯的以为只要真心的付出就会让想象变为现实,如果不是一心把梦放到爱情的故事中,怎么会在对方离开以后还想要守护,还如此的放不下,还迟迟不能清醒,让别人笑话,也让自己心痛,在幻想与现实的边缘,没有生路。

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Mid Valley [6/3/11]

Today, I had an outing with a good friend of mine for the whole afternoon.

P/s:
I'm glad that I have a chance to meet her here. Hehe. I hope that she'll always live a happy, healthy and cheerful life.

"Everyday is a new beginning. Treat it that way. Stay away from what might have been, and look at what can be." ~Marsha Petrie Sue

We watched a movie -- I Am Number Four.

Synopsis
Three are dead. Who is Number Four? An extraordinary teen, John Smith, who is a fugitive on the run from ruthless enemies sent to destroy him. Changing his identity, moving from town to town with his guardian Henri, John is always the new kid with no ties to his past. In the small Ohio town he now calls home, John encounters unexpected, life-changing events-his first love, Sarah, powerful new abilities and a connection to the others who share his incredible destiny.

Cast
Alex Pettyfer as John Smith
Timothy Olyphant as Henri
Teresa Palmer as Number 6
Dianna Agron as Sarah
Callan McAuliffe as Sam
Kevin Durand as Mogadorian Commander
Jake Abel as Mark

P/s:
Although I do quite scared of the huge flying creature and the faces of the Mogadorians, but this is really a nice movie. And, I love Number 6 as well. She's very cool in her fighting skills indeed.

Friday, March 4, 2011

Dinner's Menu [28/2, 1, 3&4/3/11]

Monday

Tuesday

Thursday

Friday

P/s:
There won't be anymore dinner ordering for every Wednesday starting this March cause the person in charge couldn't find a person to help her distribute rice boxes. So, every Wednesday I need to figure out what to eat for my dinner. Hmmm.

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

In a relationship, married or not... YOU SHOULD READ THIS!!

MARRIAGE

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outsidethe door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.